Daily Reflection
of Creighton University's Online Ministries
July 26th, 2012

Ken Reed-Bouley

Creighton Center for Service and Justice
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Memorial of Sts. Joachim and Ann, parents of Mary
[606] Sirach 44:1, 10-15
Psalm 132:11, 13-14, 17-18
Matthew 13:16-17


“They just don’t get it.” How many times have you heard someone describe a group with whom they disagree with this stinging yet ultimately unhelpful dismissal? (Perhaps you, like me, have uttered those words yourself?) Once “we” determine that “they” “don’t get it,” “we” can bask in our superiority and stop caring about “them.”

At first glance this seems to be what Jesus is saying about the crowds to whom he speaks in parables: “They look but do not see, and hear but do not listen or understand.” Somehow I think we need to give Jesus a little more credit. Surely he cares not only for the disciples but also for the crowds and believes they are capable of understanding and redemption.

The context of this passage is the Parable of the Sower and the Soils, immediately after Jesus tells the story and immediately before he explains its meaning. My sense is that Jesus is mainly telling the disciples that they are good soil and encouraging them to continue to follow him and learn more. “To anyone who has, more will be given. . . .”

Even so, the “they just don’t get it” attitude seems to me to be far too prevalent today. In politics, in the workplace, even in church, I believe we too easily demonize and dismiss people with whom we disagree. Would we not all be better served--and more Christ-like--if we sought humbly to truly look and see, hear and listen and understand?

I am reminded of an excerpt from the prayer written in the spirit of St. Francis:

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love; . . .

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

At least based on this prayer, I might add the following:
Loving God, Grant that I may not demonize or dismiss others, but seek to understand your will for me and live as an example of your love and forgiveness that others may come to see, hear, know and love you. Amen.

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