Reflection for Friday, February 23, 2018: 1st Week in Lent.

dc.contributor.authorScholer, Steveen_US
dc.contributor.cuauthorScholer, Steven A.en_US
dc.date.accessioned2018-02-22T16:21:45Z
dc.date.available2018-02-22T16:21:45Z
dc.date.cycleYear IIen_US
dc.date.day23en_US
dc.date.daynameFridayen_US
dc.date.issued2018-02-23en_US
dc.date.monthFebruaryen_US
dc.date.seasonLenten_US
dc.date.weekWeek: 1en_US
dc.date.year2018en_US
dc.description.abstract|The Gospel reading from Matthew reminded me of my dad. He was one of the few non-lawyer judicial magistrates appointed to the bench in Iowa. In my home town of Le Mars, he handled everything from traffic violations to a small claims court. He loved it, as he always wanted to be a lawyer, and in fact, he is the one who urged me to go to law school.|When I would come home to see my parents on weekends, he would often tell me about some of the small claim court cases he heard and his story usually included his trademark line. After he heard both sides of the case he would say to the contestants, "You both did a wonderful job presenting your side of the case. Now, I am going to go into chambers and when I come out I will have made my decision. One of you will win and one will lose. But if the two of you can sit down and work this out while I am in chambers, you both will end up winners and may even become friends."|My dad said that, usually before he even finished his first cup of coffee talking with the bailiff, there would be a knock on the door and the contestants would tell him they had agreed between themselves to settle their differences, there was no need for him to make a decision, and they wanted to dismiss the case.|Could that be what we also see in today's Gospel reading? Is the Lord saying, if you want to bring to me the trespasses that have been made against you for adjudication, so be it, but one of you may be headed to the fiery Gehenna, and one of you may enter the Kingdom of heaven?|Like the litigants in my dad's courtroom, maybe it is better for us, too, to settle our differences and forgive those we feel have trespassed against us, vs. rolling the dice that the Lord will see it our way on judgement day, and that we were right in not forgiving our neighbor, and our neighbor was wrong.|As we do our daily Examen of Conscience, we can ask ourselves how willing we are to forgive. Are we always willing to forgive the little things – like someone we don't know and will likely never see again holding up the checkout line at the grocery store – but not the person who criticized, and maybe rightfully so, for something we did at work? We can ask ourselves if God is so willing to forgive us for our sins and we want to model our behavior in his image, why is it so hard for us to forgive those who have trespassed against us? Forgiving is fun. Forgiving is empowering. If we try it, we will like it. |So as we continue on our Lenten journey, if we have not yet made up our mind about what to give up for Lent, maybe holding grudges would be appropriate.  Learning to be more forgiving with be a great Lenten grace.en_US
dc.identifier.otherLectionary Number: 228en_US
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dc.publisherUniversity Ministry, Creighton University.en_US
dc.publisher.locationOmaha, Nebraska, United Statesen_US
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dc.rights.holderUniversity Ministry, Creighton University.en_US
dc.subject.local1Ezekiel 18:21-28en_US
dc.subject.local2Psalms 130:1-2, 3-4, 5-7a, 7bc-8en_US
dc.subject.local4Matthew 5:20-26en_US
dc.titleReflection for Friday, February 23, 2018: 1st Week in Lent.en_US
dc.title.seriesDaily Reflections (Meditations) on the Scriptures from the Roman Catholic Lectionary.en_US
dc.typeEssay
dc.url.link1http://onlineministries.creighton.edu/CollaborativeMinistry/daily.htmlen_US
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